Relational Intelligence: How to Read People Like a Book John Ortberg
teaching pastor at Willow Creek Community Church
Learning to read the "signs" in a person.
Proverbs 20:27The lamp of the LORD searches the spirit of a man; it searches out his inmost being.
How "tuned in" are you?
Several relational "Rules of the Road"
Stop... Proverbs 10:19When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise.
Yield... James 1:19-20My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.
Road Closed... Revelation 3:21To him who overcomes, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I overcame and sat down with my Father on his throne.
(Avoid pressuring, bullying, manipulating, guilt-tripping, etc.)
Caution... Proverbs 17:27A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.
(The three laws of relationship: observation, observation, observation)
Go... Proverbs 25:11A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.
Every day you see faces, and behind each face is a heart that beats with life God put there...
Will you love me?
Will you celebrate with me?
Will you comfort me?
Will you challenge me?
Will you encourage me?
Will you confront me?
Will you correct me?
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